;this goes in your on text command ( believe the regex is from nick i'm not sure anymore )
on *:Text:*:#: {
  if (($me isin $1-) && (($appstate == tray) || ($chan != $active))) {
    if (($version !< 6.35) && (!%tip. [ $+ [ $nick ] ])) {
      inc -u2 %alert.flood
      if (%alert.flood < 2) {
        noop $tip('Tray Tip', $nick , $nick just said your name in $chan with the following message:, 10)
        noop $tip('Tray Tip', Message, $regsubex($1-, /\[(?:style\x20.*?|/style)\]/gi,$null), 10)         
        set -u15 %tip. [ $+ [ $nick ] ] true
        /splay sounds/pager.wav
      }
    }
  }
}